You want to be in a happy relationship. You want to feel safe, heard, and understood. You want a man to commit to you and build a beautiful life together.
Unfortunately, that hasn’t been your dating experience. Not at all. You go online, you swipe, you text, you hook up, and you keep getting your heart broken.
One guy seems great, but all he does is text. Another guy comes on strong, but suddenly ghosts. Another swears he’s looking for marriage but refuses to commit.
At a certain point, you look around and start to wonder:
“Why do I attract the wrong guys? Is there something wrong with me? Is there something wrong with men? Why do other women have love while I’m forced to go out with so many liars, players, and losers who always disappoint me?”
These are reasonable thoughts to have, but, as Dating Coach Evan Marc Katz shares in this article, there’s one important question you haven’t asked….
If you’re single, you’ve probably gone through hell in the dating world. Maybe you even think of it all as a dating game.
Investing your time in guys who don’t follow through after a first date.
Wasting months on men who don’t want anything more than a casual relationship.
Taking years to wait for one person to propose when he was never really going to.
As a dating coach, I am very fluent in the way you can allow your optimism to override your realism when it comes to love.
And yes, it’s true. Loving and losing can hurt far more than never loving at all.
You ask yourself questions like “Why do I attract men with girlfriends?” or “Why do I attract the wrong guys?” After all your false starts and rejections and disappointments, it would be very easy to come to the conclusion that, dammit, you just seem to attract the “wrong” men.